Helping caregivers recognize early signs and prevent escalation
This guide helps caregivers understand and support your child's regulation states. It's about recognizing needs and providing support, not monitoring or changing behavior.
After escalation, the nervous system needs time to fully reset
This varies by child and situation
Force compliance, use punishment, restrain (unless safety), shame or blame, rush recovery
Behavior is communication, sensory needs are real, regulation comes before learning, connection before correction
Safety concerns, extended orange zone (>30 min), new concerning patterns, caregiver overwhelm
Stay regulated yourself, take breaks when possible, seek support, remember: you're doing your best